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 - countrylad39
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Hi i am 39 single no ties,caring,romantic warm mainy intrests including walking,cinema eating out most types of music willing to have ago at most things, i am looking to meet someone honest genuine for friendship possible relationship. |
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 - PJB12
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- Male
- Straight
- Age: 35
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Hi,
I'm 35 years old (but look or come across younger), really smart (which is neither here nor there) but somewhat socially awkward at times.
I've recently been described as kind, thoughtful, generous and intelligent which doesn't sound too bad.
I have a great sense of humour and a good, fun outlook on life.
I've been told I look okay for the most part (though I have no idea about this), but I'm probably not quite as into my appearance as I should be.
Where it not for being socially awkward (not always knowing how best to start/end a conversion, despite being really smart and perceptive) I would probably have found some to love by now.
The easiest way to describe me is that I can read peoples thoughts really well (beyond what most folk can) when observing from a distance... but when I'm having to be engaged in conversation I tend to miss social clues.
This can lead me to missing opportunities or accidentally offending people without meaning to. I come across as a normal person, but in practice I'm not as effective at social chit chat as others are, or as effective as folk would assume me to be.
E.g. A girl jumped up entirely onto my desk at work (which is quite a formal place) and played with her hair, while asking me a silly question on work, and generally flirting with me. Had I observed this happening to someone else I would have instantly known what was happening. As it happened to me directly though, I was completely oblivious to the flirting and just answered the silly question. Ooops.
Whether it's from not having enough experience or paying too much attention to the media or whatever, I tend to prefer pretty but slightly more "bustier" woman (apologies if it's wrong to say that - the key thing with me is simply knowing that regardless of what I actually say, I'd never say or do anything if I thought it would hurt anyone).
With all that out of the way, I'll get onto the fun stuff. I basically want to be in a relationship where the other person is in the same general region in terms of intelligence and common sense, but ideally someone who's also playful, fun loving and doesn't take things too seriously (or at least not always). Someone who has a zest for life and who'll challenge me (and vice versa). Someone who's fairly perceptive or cunning would also be fun. And very importantly, someone who isn't deceitful/bitchy, but rather has a "live and let live" care free/easy going attitude. I want to go out visiting new places (whether historical, art galleries, or whatever - I don't care) but also be able to have fun taking the micky out of each other while relaxing in the house. |