Widowed BHM looking to start the next chapter.

BHM4You (Male) from USA, Las Vegas

Fifty one year old BHM. Good cook and a little (sometimes a lot) nerdy. I'm six ft with medium-long grey hair and trimmed beard. Main picture at the moment is one a coworker took for me at the end of the shift. I take horrible selfies and didn't have anything else on this phone. I added a more groomed pic I made from a photo where I have forty pounds more body but ten pounds less hair so you can see the ends of the spectrum.
I'm not looking for forever after, but I won't run from it either.
I need someone who enjoys spending time me. Whether holding hands walking through the park or mall or what have you, curled up together on the couch watching a movie or tangled up together ignoring the movie, or having a nice meal and show out on the town, as long as we click I'm good.
I don't have any relationship goals beyond that, but I'm open to possibilities.
I'm not necessarily looking for a big gal, but I'm ok if she is. It's how the whole package works together : Personality and attitude are first and face and body both fight for third and fourth.
Whether size 8 or 18 and beyond, you can find someone that is equally drop dead gorgeous or even kinda cute. So, I find the first two criteria to be much more important.
I work in the Vegas Cannabis industry and usually work very early. Just a heads up for anyone that might have an issue with either of those situations. I'm also only looking for someone in the valley or just beyond.
I'm just shy of six foot one inch and just over two hundred and fifty pounds. I started growing my hair out last summer. Not really going for the old hippy look even though you might think so because of my work. It's actually more the groovy Santa look I'm after. Kurt Russell in the Santa Chronicles is more the image I aspire to.
While I love kids and think I was a better than pretty good step father at one point, I don't think I'm at the best point in my life to do it again. Although if you have grandkids, I might spoil them way too much. The problem is that if I were to have a new family right now I would dive in and give them everything I am and have. But, after the trials of the last few years I feel the need to be a little selfish and while there is room for more than one person in my life, I can only concentrate on one.
This may have been TMI, but while I like playing games, it's only with the fun stuff, not the important things.

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BHM4You Personal Details
Gender Male
Age 55
Location USA, Nevada, Las Vegas
šŸŒˆ Sexuality Straight
šŸŒŽ Ethnicity White / Caucasian
šŸŽ“ Education Some college
šŸ’ž Relationship Status Widowed
šŸ™ Religion Spiritualist
šŸš¬ Smoke No
šŸ· Drink Socially
šŸ‘¶ Children Yes, not living with me
šŸ“ Height 6ft 1in (185 cm)
āŒ› Body Type Big & Beautiful
šŸ‘± Hair Colour Gray

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mayasing
7:13 am Sunday, 25th October, 2020

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jambog16
3:27 pm Tuesday, 20th October, 2020

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