....We love not by finding a perfect person but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly...

femidave (Male) from South Africa, Cape Town

I was thinking how everything in our life is coincidence. We take one path or another. Everyone I know was once a stranger. It’s timing. It is whether we will put in any special effort. With hundreds of contacts possible on the net, it is easy to see one consideration and just go on the next one…ah..,but something is amiss here.
To succeed and truly have a rewarding relationship our actions already have to maintain the attributes of success meaning patience, extra effort, going the extra mile. The truth is that this may go nowhere...we've all met someone on a trip or a convention. It isn't how we meet but how we relate after we meet that drives the train.

I believe a relationship is only partly something we "find"...it is mostly something we create. We create it by maintaining enough balance in our own lives to give it direction...fill it with love and ambition...enough to invite someone else in the kingdom of our feelings and dreams.

We love not by finding a perfect person but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly...


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femidave Personal Details
Gender Male
Age 51
Location South Africa, Western Cape, Cape Town
🌈 Sexuality Straight
🌎 Ethnicity Black / African
πŸŽ“ Education Bachelor's degree
πŸ’ž Relationship Status Single
πŸ™ Religion Christian
🚬 Smoke No
🍷 Drink Socially
πŸ‘Ά Children Undecided
πŸ“ Height 5ft 11in (180 cm)
βŒ› Body Type Athletic
πŸ‘± Hair Colour Black
🦡 Body hair Shaved