Who am I?
Well someone who has had a few relationships in life where the spark has died, the reasons change and it just gets too hard. It is then time to move on for both our sakes. It breaks your heart but it breaks even more if you stay.
This is where I am today looking for someone to bring the light back, whether it is through friendship or perhaps falling in love, who knows. Friends always make you sparkle.
I have two children who are very important to me and stay a couple of times a week. I run my own business which is internet based so gives me time during the day. I live near Cleckheaton and have my own house and a flash car (used to drive a Nissan Micra).
We are looking for that certain someone and a while ago someone sent me A Reason, Season, Lifetime. Abridged version is below it will help us all to understand why things happen the way they do. You see I am always the eternal optimist.
When someone is in your life for a REASON. . . It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
Then people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Work like you don't need the money.
Love like you've never been hurt.
And dance like no one is watching
My ideal partner would be someone who can lean on me and I on them. Someone who smiles with her eyes as well as her mouth and hopefully when she opens her eyes on a morning.
Who is happy to sit down on a Sunday and share the papers over coffee.
Who will get up at dawn to watch the sun rise just for the hell of it. Ditto the sunset.
Will climb to the top of a hill in a dark place, so you can see all the stars and then wait to see a shooting star (and make a wish).
Who can cook and enjoys cooking so that the two of us together could earn a Michelin Star.
Who smells nice I am a great believer in pheromones thats where love at first sight comes from.
Who believes in and loves herself and is comfortable in any environment.
The End
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| Gender | Male |
| Age | 67 |
| Location | South Africa, Western Cape, Cape Town |
| š Sexuality | Straight |
| š Ethnicity | White / Caucasian |
| š Education | Some University |
| š Relationship Status | Divorced |
| š Religion | Christian |
| š¬ Smoke | No |
| š· Drink | Socially |
| š¶ Children | Yes, not living with me |
| š Height | 5ft 8in (173 cm) |
| ā Body Type | Average |
| š± Hair Colour | Dark Brown |
| š¦µ Body hair | Shaved |