I'm 62 years old, living in the Christchurch region.

Bev (Female) from UK, Christchurch

Now in my 50's and separated from my husband who I've been with for most of my adult life I've realised life's too short not to have fun, I would like to grow old just a little disgracefully!!! I feel younger than my years (and been told I look much younger). I have a wicked sense of humour and love good conversation - nothing nicer than dinner, good bottle of wine and flowing conversation. I have worked hard and built a great career and my job takes up a lot of my time but I do enjoy making the most of my free time socialising with friends, traveling (I adore the sun but haven't got skin like a lizard luckily ;-)), watching sport (huge rugby and footie fan) and I love just chilling with a good book or listening to music. I have a broad taste in music everything from rock to classical and in-between - particularly love going to live concerts and have been lucky enough to see some great bands artists. I'm a huge Take That fan but please don't be put off by that :-) brI'm loyal, tactile, sensitive and a good listener friend. I'm intolerant of laziness, I hate liars players and not interested in games - far too old for that ;-) brI've had several 'false starts' and have decided to review my monthly spending lol so I don't have long left to find what I'm hoping for i.e. someone I 'click' with and who's company I enjoy, all things crossed eh? :-) brI prefer not to post a pic on here (call me silly but it feels safer not to) but I'll happily exchange pics on a 1-1 basis. brThanks for looking at my profile and lots of luck in your search xx brbrPS why can't the selection of what you're here for give you an option of 'just hoping to find friendship that might develop into something more serious and have lots of fun along the way'? ;-) brPPS please don't get in touch if you're ready for your pipe and slippers

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Bev Personal Details
Gender Female
Age 63
Location UK, Wales: Gwent, Christchurch
🌈 Sexuality Straight
🌎 Ethnicity White / Caucasian
🚬 Smoke No
🍷 Drink Socially
📏 Height 5ft 7in (170 cm)
⌛ Body Type Curvy
👱 Hair Colour Blonde

Recent status updates

Bev
  6:06 am Saturday, 13th January, 2018

Brrrrrrr So flipping cold and why is this month so long 😳 I need some warmer weather soon please. Am I the only one wishing my life away - I can't wait for the spring 👍🏻 X


Bev
  6:03 am Saturday, 13th January, 2018

Rollercoaster ride The past few months have been full of ups and downs but all adds to life's rich tapestry I suppose 😊 This year a became a Grandma and nothing could have prepared me the the overwhelming love I feel for my child's child - it's the best feeling. I guess it's just reminded me of how good love and being loved is. Everyone deserves to be loved 💖


Bev
  8:45 pm Sunday, 14th January, 2018

Bed How fantastic it is to have an early night in a lovely comfortable bed with clean linen - one of the nicest things 👍🏻 😊


Bev
  9:48 pm Sunday, 7th January, 2018

Camel meat Would you eat it???? Lol 😉


Bev
  9:38 pm Sunday, 7th January, 2018

Bucket lists Have you got one? I'm revisiting mine tonight and hatching a few plans 😉👍🏻


Bev
  9:35 pm Sunday, 7th January, 2018

''Tis done 7 days and counting, no more for me 😊🥂👍🏻


Bev
  9:27 pm Sunday, 7th January, 2018

Micheal Palin Love him, great programme on bbc2 right now. Pleasant change to have something worth watching on tv 👍🏻


Bev
  10:55 am Sunday, 7th January, 2018

Hmmmm How will I ever work out the protocol for this stuff. Meet for coffee - all goes well, accept invite dinner - then disappearance!!!! What's a woman to do lol 😂 Happy New Year guys 😊🎉🥂


Bev
  10:06 pm Sunday, 7th January, 2018

And now for something completely different Lol love it 😍


Bev
  9:37 pm Monday, 8th January, 2018

Surgeons bbc2 How amazing - can't believe the fantastic things that can be done Very clever people who help very brave people deal with life changing illnesses I'm in awe x


Bev
  10:01 pm Thursday, 30th November, 2017

Woo hoo Well December Eve is almost over and the countdown to Xmas begins. Saturday is the first of several 'dos', some time off work and lots of family stuff. Time to change that work/ life balance for a few weeks and I can't flipping wait. Partyyyyyyyy 🎉🥂🎉🥂


Bev
  9:36 am Saturday, 16th December, 2017

Scary How quickly time flies!!! Can't believe it's only 9 sleeps until the big day - seems only a few weeks ago since last Xmas. The last of my Xmas 'dos' tonight so another black dress, another hairdo and another night if dancing 👍🏻🍸 Need to get up and start the prep 😉 Have a good day all x


Bev
  10:31 am Saturday, 21st October, 2017

Hmmmm What a rubbish day weather wise!!! Raining blowing a gale why do weekends usually suffer with the worst weather yet sun shines when I'm in work!!! I might get myself out of bed soon :-)


Bev
  8:18 am Saturday, 25th November, 2017

Brrrrrrr Listening to the neighbours scraping ice off their windscreens doesn't make me want to get out of my lovely warm bed this morning lol. Today's a good day though, lots to do and some rugby to watch later. 👍🏻 Have a good one all Bev x


Bev
  3:08 am Sunday, 26th November, 2017

Bed/ Sleep Why is it I get into my lovely warm comfortable bed and within minutes I'm asleep 😴 however a few hours later I'm wide awake and trying desperately to get back off to sleep!!! I might get up and do my ironing!!! 😳


Bev
  11:13 pm Saturday, 18th November, 2017

What next Wink, then return that wink - what next??? 😉


Bev
  5:47 am Saturday, 18th November, 2017

😴 sleep Can't remember the last time I slept through the night!!! So frustrating being wide awake at 4am etc. No work today but been awake for hours, sleep eludes me 😳 Helpppppp lol x


Bev
  5:17 pm Saturday, 18th November, 2017

Woohoo Well played England- would never have bet on that result 👍🏻😊


Bev
  7:52 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

Just when you think .... ......you've cracked it your hopes are shattered :-( Hey ho!!


Bev
  7:50 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

Mixed views about last nights boxing. Firstly I'm not entirely sure how I feel when I watch it - as a sport is it right to watch two people hurting each other however that aside should it have been stopped when it was as!!!???? I'm still working it through in my mind. One thing I am 100 certain of is that I definitely don't think it's a sport for women. I'm sure my views won't be liked by many of you guys but that's just my thoughts right now X


Bev
  7:24 am Friday, 10th November, 2017

Confused.com I'll never understand how all this stuff is meant to work!! So I'm contacted but someone, he seemed nice we exchanged numbers and pics - all good so far. We chat one evening via WhatsApp, I say I have to go but catch up again soon, he says yes would love to. A few days later I think hmmm I'll send him a message via the site and see how's he's doing and he's blocked me!!!! Weird!!! How on earth is this stuff meant to work - confused muchly 😳😳😳


Bev
  5:05 pm Tuesday, 27th June, 2017

Adios Thought it was yesterday but I'm losing my marbles and have until midnight. At that point I turn into a pumpkin ;-) I can't say it's been a blast but I've got a few new text/ email buddies which is fab Good luck in your journeys/ quests and above all else have fun! Bev xx PS for those of you with my details please keep in touch :-)


Bev
  10:54 pm Tuesday, 27th June, 2017

Woo hoo One hour and five mins left - I'm sure they'll be a stampede of messages lol. I'm off to Sicily in the morning - mucho excited. Have fun all X


Bev
  5:04 am Sunday, 25th June, 2017

Bucket list I'm slowly but surely picking off key things on mine, a Lions tour still being number 1 though closely followed by a dream holiday in the Maldives. I haven't given up on them yet ;-) X


Bev
  5:02 am Sunday, 25th June, 2017

Lions Good first half today, at half time I thought it was going to be a lot closer than first expected. Alas the second half saw the mighty all blacks step it up and show everyone what they are known for. I fear Mr G needs to make several changes for next week, looking forward to it :-) Bev x


Bev
  4:53 am Sunday, 25th June, 2017

Countdown Only 3 days left to find someone who doesn't fib/ bombard you with texts then disappear with no explanation / isn't clearly already in a relationship and can only communicate at certain times of the week/ isn't playing the field with so many other women they struggle to fit you in etc etc lol. Surely there are some good guys out there who are honest, interesting and fun - I'd love to hear from you/ them (previous applicants need not apply ;-)) Bev x


Bev
  10:33 pm Sunday, 4th June, 2017

Weekend :-) More sad news that hammers home the importance of enjoying life to the full. I've been lucky enough this weekend to spend time with my lovely kids, catch up with some girlfriends for a few drinks etc and time for a spot of retail therapy - life is good but thoughts with others not nearly as lucky Nite all x


Bev
  7:57 am Friday, 2nd June, 2017

Feedback So I've cancelled my membership as this is clearly not what I had expected but thought I make one last concerted effort lol. 6 messages sent to guys who were online at the time and guess how many replies? Surely it's not that hard to pop a quick response even if it's just a 'get lost' - hey ho one day I'll come across someone on my wavelength maybe. Good luck to all in your search x


Bev
  12:11 am Tuesday, 30th May, 2017

Countdown 4 weeks and counting....... I wonder if I'm pleasantly surprised ;-) x


Bev
  5:13 am Tuesday, 6th June, 2017

Phew..... Why is it that when you're exhausted you just can't sleep!!!! Tried almost everything I can think of :-( x