At 81, but younger in spirit and health, I seek to learn from experiences and be a better person. My interests include music, travel, writing, and much more. I take daily long walks, e-bike rides, and an occasional sauna. I like swimming and ocean kayakin

Ectophile (Male) from USA, La Jolla

My best qualities are that I am a good listener, caring, kind, highly intelligent, energetic, who has acquired wisdom by learning from mistakes and failures. I am also good at sorting out priorities and problems, giving thoughtful advice, and being a loyal and honest friend.

I enjoy intimacy, deep kisses, massages, sex in all its wonders, ice cream, acoustic music, the sounds of nature, the ever changing light on the ocean, fine dining, mostly vegetarian fare, but I love seafood and chicken, single malt whiskey, good wine, and Guinness, esp. the first half-pint.

Besides growing up in the United States, I have lived, worked, and studied in 5 countries.

My passions have always been music and writing. I'll tell you more later.

I am always positive in my thoughts and demeanor, disliking rudeness, loud and clueless others, smokers, and those who drink excessively.

I'm not religious or dogmatic, but very spiritually connected to the Universe, and always sought answers to profound questions on the meaning of life.

Finally, I recently visited Western Ireland and County Clare for 5 days, staying in Shannon town, and from there visiting Bunratty, Inis Oirr, Limerick, and much more.

Those 5 days in Ireland changed my life, and led me here to find you, so that I can return and find what I was really seeking.

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Ectophile Personal Details
Gender Male
Age 84
Location USA, California, La Jolla
🌈 Sexuality Straight
🌎 Ethnicity White / Caucasian
🚬 Smoke No
🍷 Drink Sometimes
⌛ Body Type Slim
👱 Hair Colour Black