10:48 am Tuesday, 11th June, 2024
Consent is essential to the very fabric of dating, from the first chat to those exciting in-person meetups, so you gotta be aware. Ready to make sure your dating experience is enjoyable and respectful? Let’s go! 👇
When you’re getting to know someone online, it’s all about feeling each other out – figuratively speaking, of course! 😉 Consent here means respecting boundaries and ensuring you’re both fully comfortable with the conversation. If your match isn’t ready to share personal details or wants to keep the chat light, honor that. If you’re broaching a personal topic, like deep feelings or complex dating history, ask open-ended questions: "Is it okay if I ask you about...?" or "Would you be comfortable sharing...?". 😊
Photos can spice up your online chatting, but always get consent before sending or requesting them. An unexpected photo can be off-putting and make someone uncomfortable. A simple, "Do you mind if I send you a picture?" can go a long way. Also, be mindful of the types of photos you’re sharing and what they’ve agreed to share. Keep it classy (aka clothed! 😅) to start, and if you’re in doubt, let them set the tone and follow their lead. 👌
When your connection moves from online to offline, consent continues to play a critical role. Discuss and agree on the details of your meeting: the time, place, and what you’re both comfortable with. Clear communication helps build trust and ensures that both parties feel safe and excited about the meetup. Phrasing everything: "Does this place work for you?" or "Are you okay with meeting at this time?". It’s all about mutual agreement. 🤝🌟
Meeting in person brings new dynamics, especially physical contact. It’s essential to discuss and respect each other’s boundaries. If you’re unsure about physical touch, simply ask. "Can I hold your hand?" or "Is it okay if I kiss you?" can feel awkward at first, but it’s so much less awkward than accidentally overstepping boundaries. Respect and consent show that you value your date’s comfort and autonomy, and you need that at the foundation of a strong and healthy relationship. ❤️
If your date progresses to a more intimate level, consent becomes even more crucial. Always ensure that both of you are on the same page regarding intimacy. Clear, open communication about desires, limits, and comfort levels can make the experience enjoyable for both. Never assume, and always ask: "Are you having a good time?" or "Do you want me to…?". Remember, consent should be enthusiastic and can be withdrawn at any time, for any reason. 🤷
A lot of conversations we hear about consent talk about avoiding negative experiences, but really, it’s about creating positive ones! 🤗 When both parties feel safe, respected, and heard, it enhances the connection and makes the dating experience enjoyable. Consent fosters trust, which is the foundation of any great relationship. So, be open, be clear, and always check in with your partner. You’ll find that it brings you closer together. 💖
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6:20 pm Wednesday, 12th June, 2024
Let’s do it. |
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6:24 pm Wednesday, 12th June, 2024
I’m interested 😍 |
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6:24 pm Wednesday, 12th June, 2024
Totally agree 👍 |
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6:25 pm Wednesday, 12th June, 2024
I want to try this! |
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4:40 am Friday, 14th June, 2024
Totally agree 👍 |
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10:02 am Friday, 14th June, 2024
Totally agree 👍 |
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10:02 am Friday, 14th June, 2024
Yes, please! |
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10:02 am Friday, 14th June, 2024
Love this! |
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10:02 am Friday, 14th June, 2024
Perfect 👌 |
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10:48 pm Monday, 17th June, 2024
Perfect 👌 |
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10:33 pm Thursday, 20th June, 2024
أمهتم هيا |
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12:29 am Sunday, 23rd June, 2024
Wonderful |
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1:42 am Thursday, 27th June, 2024
I’m interested 😍 |
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5:02 pm Tuesday, 2nd July, 2024
Let’s do it. |
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10:10 pm Tuesday, 2nd July, 2024
Yes, please! |
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4:10 pm Thursday, 4th July, 2024
love this well said |
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4:42 am Sunday, 7th July, 2024
Love this! |
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2:02 am Tuesday, 9th July, 2024
I want a great relationship with a nice lady |
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12:21 pm Wednesday, 10th July, 2024
Great read! |
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8:27 pm Wednesday, 10th July, 2024
Yes, please! |
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4:48 pm Wednesday, 17th July, 2024
Great advice 👍🏻 |
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12:23 pm Thursday, 18th July, 2024
There is of course, the problem of blurred lines between express consent and implied consent. For instance, express consent is when you are asked something specific and you respond to either give consent or deny the request. Implied consent is much more nuanced and open to interpretation. If you're on a (genuine) dating site - where the whole point of joining is to meet people - sooner or later you will have to swap personal details, pictures etc and hopefully arrange a date. That's what you signed up for. You wouldn't accept a job on a building site then continually ask permission to wear safety equipment, climb ladders, move pallets etc. If you did, eventually the chargehand or foreman would tell you to "Get on with it, or find another job". And that's often why dating sites (and conversations within them) fail. If one party asks permission so much it annoys the person they're trying to talk to, or the person they're trying to get to know doesn't want to open up, then the conversation dries up. |
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10:04 am Tuesday, 23rd July, 2024
Let’s do it. |
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4:33 pm Friday, 26th July, 2024
I want to try this! |
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3:53 pm Wednesday, 31st July, 2024
Totally agree 👍 |
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4:39 am Tuesday, 6th August, 2024
Totally agree 👍 |
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1:28 pm Saturday, 10th August, 2024
Great read! |
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2:26 pm Sunday, 11th August, 2024
😍😍😍 |
