We all start to see patterns in the information coming at us. A few rambles from what I've noticed. If you find these useful, you can use them to make better connections.
First thing I notice is..
Some day I want to be that little old lady shuffling along, holding hands with her little old man. But not yet. Today, I want to laugh, dance, explore, have long conversations, have hot sex, cuddle on the sofa and watch films with subtitles, cook together