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Using your interests to meet people?

2:04 pm Tuesday, 30th May, 2017

Now I am in my 30s the question that I keep asking myself when it comes to dating is where do I meet people? After some research, a common answer is to do what you enjoy, maybe join some clubs or groups, with the idea that you may meet someone else who shares your interest(s), but if you don't, at least you did something fun.

In general, I tend to agree with that approach. After all, life is for living, right? So why not do things you enjoy?

However, recent experiences have made me start to wonder if that is really such a good approach for dating. I think that, unless you have a fairly wide range of interests in hobbies, when you do things you enjoy, chances are that you will develop a somewhat limited circle of friends who share your interests. And if you start to date within that circle and it doesn't work out, things could get messy to the point where you could lose or have to give up not only the friends, but also the activity you enjoy.

So, ladies and gentlemen, what do you think? Is it really such a good idea to date within the circle or community of people that share your interests?

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