About me:
First and foremost, I am a God-fearing woman and primarily am trusting to meet a like-minded match. I am not into playing mind games. I much rather prefer to interact with people in a constructive and meaningful way. Life is too short and unpredictable to spend precious time on insignificantmeanin gless activities. Memorable moments that take my breath away - this is how I prefer to interact with those near and dear to me.
Down to earth, no mess, no fuss - just me. I love who I am and am quite comfortable in my own skin. My identity is intact and I am not materialistic, much more appreciative of the simple things in life - those kind of things that brings a warm and fuzzy feeling to the heart (in terms of what we acquire whilst here, we leave this world the way we came into it, anyway). I believe that when two people whole people come together, it should not necessarily be to complete, but rather to compliment each other - to bring out the best in each other and to create a beautiful symphony as together they traverse through life. That way the expectations one from the other will not be unrealistic in terms of taking responsibility for one's own personal happiness.
I'm Sanguine-Phlegmatic. I have a good sense of humour, love to laugh! Can be quite bubbly! Compassionate, considerate, friendly and kind. Human suffering absolutely saddens me! I'm always the first to want to rush out to make things better! I love reading, writing and listening to good music.
Being out in nature, near the ocean, sight-seeing, walkinghikingcampi ng is of the most awesome experiences afforded to human beings. There's nothing like strolling on the beach first thing in the morning when the air is fresh and crisp, or at sunset when the hustle and bustle of life quiets down - just hair-raisingly awesome! Forest walks and visits to nature reserves are fantastic too! I'm an "out there" person - love to experience life to the fullest. Oh and on the note of awesomeness, I have quite an adventurous side to me and would really like to try and do something extreme like skydiving or bungee jumping (phew! ). Not too concerned about hairdos having to stay in or make-up being smudged. Living life and embracing it, feeling the wind blow through one's hair, rays of the sun on one's skin, smiling because we have sight to see all of the beauty around us - this is what makes life worth living! Not forgetting to give thanks to God Almighty for the gifts He's blessed us with and for the blessings which He continually bestows on us. It is very liberating not to be defined by where one comes from, what one wears, what one looks like, what one's vocation in life is, etc. I believe that there's a time for everything and a "dress code" for every occasion :)
I'm quite romantic - simply adore sitting on a couch with the love of my life, having heart-to-heart and philosophical chats with soft music playing in the background! Watch TVmovies, though not too fanatical about it - I'd much rather read a good book in a quiet spot!
About the people who share this beautiful world with me, I'm totally non-judgmental, actually this is what life experience has taught me! I believe that everyone has been placed here for a reason and should be respected for whatever stance they might have concerning life and how they perceive it.
My Ideal Match:
You have your feet firmly on the ground. You would already have discovered yourself and have a very clear idea of who you are, what you desire from life and where you are going. Since nobody is perfect, I'm not looking for perfection! I'm simply trusting to meet someone who would be perfect for me and for whom I would be perfect! You love and respect others as much as you love and respect yourself. You have a sense of humour and always see the brighter side of life. You value friends and family. You are totally authentic (which is key to me). You are open and honest with no hidden agenda. You are the kind of man who will look at your partner and vice versa and the two of you will consider yourselves blessed for having met each other.
I would like to be friends first, see how things unfolds. Should you and I discover that there's something really special developing, it would be wonderful to build a loving, harmonious and peaceful home with my partner. Where our children (if any), friends, family and the stranger knocking on our door, would feel warm, welcome and completely accepted (Matthew 25:40 NLT “And the King will say, ‘I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me! ’). A home where respect and unconditional love will reign supreme. Where communication will be key to the success of the relationship. On the note of family, I have an adult daughter living with me who has completed her Communications Degree, currently working in the media and production industry.
Oh and have I mentioned that should you, for some or other reason, on a particular day be feeling low, I'll play you a tune on the piano, and if you've really, really had a bad day, I will sing you a little cheer-up song :) Kiss you on the forehead and give you a tender, reassuring hug! :)
Should my narrative resonate with you, feel free to get in touch!
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| Gender | Female | |
| Age | 54 | |
| Sexuality | Straight | |
| Location | South Africa, Western Cape, George | |
| Build | Average | |
| Hair | Black | |
| Drink | Never | |
| Smoke | No | |
| Education | College Degree/Diploma | |
| Religion | Christian | |
| Children | Yes - living with me | |
| Marital Status | Divorced | |
