This is probably one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life. I lost my wife, of 27 years, to drugs about 2 years ago. I, myself, have never touched anything other then Weed. Never wanted to. Afraid of addiction.
Now, I am left here all alone to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. And this is not easy. In fact, it is one big pain in the a$$.
My pictures are all recent. They are from Christmas 2020. And pictures say nothing about a person. Absolutely nothing. I really wish they could. Maybe then I would get some responses and some messages.
Instead, I get nothing. And it is not easy.
I am not into long distances relationships. Also, if you are younger than 50 please do not message me. I am not into robbing the cradle. I am not interested.
Yes, I do smoke weed. I am prescribed by a Doctor for a Neurological Sleep Condition. No, I am not on disability or anything like that. I do work a full time job. I also curse a lot. What the F. They are only words. Who determines them to be bad?
I work for the Federal Government. I have been with them for 24 years now. I work for DOD. I am a Contracting Officer. We buy many things for the military.
I am going to do this even though it is taboo. If you were to ask my late wife, she would say I am the most caring, compassionate, romantic, and trustworthy person you will ever meet. I would do anything just to see you smile.
I am family oriented. I do have 2 adult kids who are my world. My 27 year old Daughter is working on her 2nd Masters.
My 25 year old Son is working on a BS in Business. He also works a full time job and lives with me.
I do have a few cats. All are rescues except one. Galadriel we got from my Brother in law. His cat had kittens and we took Galadriel.
Here is the down low. If you are truly looking for someone to make you feel special and loved please give me a chance. If you are looking for someone to put you first, in their life please give me a chance. Although my kids always come first.
If you want someone to make you happy please give me a chance. Just give me a chance to prove myself and forget the pictures. Pictures are useless on here. They only give you the outward appearance of the person. They cannot tell you what is in their hearts. My heart is full of love. Give me a chance please. Thank you for reading. Dan
Please be close by. Within 30 miles of 08030. I am not into long distances relationships. 30 miles max.
Here is a poem I wrote many years ago about being alone. It has been published. Enjoy
Under an amber sunrise
The world becomes empty
And sadness envelopes my mind
Beauty is at arms length
But just beyond my grasp
Brown worlds in a crystal bottle
Arms that hold my imagination
And shooting stars that never bring wishes
I reach out counting every passing desire
And each one becomes another false hope
With dreams of the perfect creation
And arms that could reach the moon
But dreams become reality
And my beauty is the sun
Seeking Female
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 59 | |
| Sexuality | Straight | |
| Location | USA, New Jersey, Gloucester City | |
| Ethnicity | White / Caucasian | |
| Build | A few extra pounds | |
| Hair | Dark brown | |
| Drink | Never | |
| Smoke | No | |
| Education | University Degree | |
| Religion | Atheist | |
| Children | Yes - living with me | |
| Marital Status | Widowed | |
