Looking for a real relationship. Ive read many personal ads, and I dont feel that listing a series of activitieshobbies gets to the heart of what I deem important. The following are some of my views on what I feel matters in a relationship:
Communication: This is the key to any relationship. I enjoy conversation on all levels - intellectual and personal. I can talk about almost anything, and love learning about things I dont. I want to grow and learn with my partner. Exchanging ideas, experiences.
Being able to tell you anything: Not that you have to agree, in fact it would be really boring if we agreed on everything, but knowing that youre willing to listen. Sharing hopes, dreams, fears. Keep the lines of communication open! Even if its something small, get it out. Little things have a way of festering when they are left alone.
Sexual practices: Although Im an avid proponent, there has to be more than just raw sex. There has to be romance. Holding hands, cuddling, staring into each others eyes, touching, moonlit walks. Romantic, sensual acts make everything else happen naturally.
Stability: Basically I am a stable person - comfortable with whowhat I am. But I try not to get into a rut. There is a lot to be said for being comfortable. I love that feeling, but when a relationship starts to become too predictablestagnant, I might look for ways to bring back the spark. After all, variety is the spice of life....
Humor: Im not looking for a comedian, but for someone who can givetake a joke. Taking oneself too seriously makes for a very boring person. Laughter is a great way to relieve tensionstress.
As you can see, Im looking for a well-rounded woman. Intelligent but not Einstein stable but not stagnant spontaneous but not erratic.
I dont think its much to ask for. Do you? No, Im not perfect. I believe that we can always find ways to improve ourselves. My biggest flaw is that Im a smoker. I maybe persuaded - not nagged - into quitting. Just distract my handslips ... then theres no time to light up ... a cigarette.
Before I make this into a novel...
Seeking Female
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 64 | |
| Sexuality | Straight | |
| Location | USA, Missouri, Bridgeton | |
| Ethnicity | White / Caucasian | |
| Height | 6ft (183 cm) | |
| Build | Athletic | |
| Hair | Light brown | |
| Drink | Never | |
| Smoke | Yes | |
| Education | University Degree | |
| Religion | Protestant | |
| Children | None - maybe would like some | |
| Marital Status | Divorced | |
