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I'm 28 years old, living in the Thousand Oaks region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 18 and 39.

Benchobserver (Male) from USA, Thousand Oaks

See if you can figure my name somewhere from clues provided...clearly im passionate so you have you're homework cut out for you :P

I'm 28 years old, living in the Thousand Oaks region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 18 and 39.
I'm single and don't have children but might like to in the future
I consider myself Christian first, a Protestant second, and a Seventh Day Adventist 3rd, and in that order. Nonetheless i am convicted of the "everlasting gospel" and looking for someome who either already is or is willing to be a fellow SDA in spirit and in truth, because its important we share the same values in order to be on the same mission-mindset, lest we have a divided household (spiritually speaking), and a "divided house cannot stand". I know because i grew up in one and it was miserable. Thats not God's plan for the family. If you're not willing to surrender all to Christ and follow the Truth in the Bible wherever it leads, i fear deep deep down and ultimately know we wouldn't be equally yoked, which will lead to needless disagreements and differences where there should be none over important things. Ive already done that vicariously through my parents' marriage as a kid and im so done with that. What a way to shorten your lifespan!

Listen, im not some religious nut amd I'm not overhere all righteous on some religeous, high horse when saying this - by no means! I simply have the wisdom to know how important it is to be equally yoked in values. I identifywith judeo-chrostian moral values and thus lean mostly on the conservatove side of the fence for alot of things. You should know that upfront as for some thats a dealbreaker. I dont expect perfection by the worlds standards as i know i certainly am not perfect...we may at the moment be starting at different points in our relationship with God --and thats ok cause we all start somewhere -- just as long we are going forward faithfully in the same dirrection with the desire to end at the right destination that God wants for us as outlined in the Bible- thats really all that matters.

I have 5 College Degrees in terms of my education. Ive been a teacher, but currently im a caregiver and studying to be a computer guy for Amazon.
In my spare time I enjoy cooking- my friends call me Chef Sawyardee. I love cooking so much that i love it even more than eating! Ive got a great story behind why. Im also an avid hikeroutdoorsman. Huge 5.11 fan. Perhaps we could go hiking to get to know one another first? Fyi, im not looking for anything serious right away cuz if you cant become good friends with someone for a while, what happens when life and feelings and storms and trials besiege you? You got to have that foundation as believers in Christ to see you through thick and thin. So got to be friends first.

And hey, if our firendship doesn't amount to anything romantic, I'm open tohope we can still be friends and bless each other as we look elsewhere for our respective mr & mrs right. No harm no hurt no foul.

If youre a scammer, please move on and dont bother me. This site has alot of stolen photos of female models. You're a scammer at that point in my book. If you have no photos, or clearly photos that dont match because clearly someone doesnt match their stolen model cover photo -- please dont waste my time. There's also alot of pre-written catch phrasesopening lines that i see repeatedly selected as no one is putting any genuine time into something custom and sincere when ive given you so much ammo to use! At that point you might as well be in the scammer club cuz they do the same too!

Lastly, if you're on here just to get laid, im not interested in giving my heart away to you. Im as hot and bothered as the next person, and appreciate good TnA as much as the next guy as well --and am honored that most you ladies keep up your figure, health beauty, and appearance --but that doesnt mean Im interested in cheap love ladies. Its worth the investment of waiting till marriage. So save your nude picks as thats a turn off as an evident character flaw -- you dont value your precious worth to me in my eyes which means we dont share the same values. If you only knew how beautiful and lovely and valuable and hot most you ladies on here are, you wouldnt just be freely giving away perhaps arguably your most precious commodity --your love -- so freely to undeserving men! Im as horny as the next guy im sure, but who cares -- isnt it so much more romantic living out Gods plan for male female relationships as outlined in the Bible where there's a time and place giving unto eachother freely and netflixi'n and chillin in the safetynet of your forever spouse where theres total security because of the commitments to each other is where its at? Think again next time youre just throwing away your sacred intimancy sending nude shots ladies -- really, moddest is hottest! I value TnA, but you can also be tasteful and classy and help a brother out in the meantime.

Nevertheless I do require full body shots (not just facial), and for goodness sakes let me see those gorgeous eyes -- quit hiding behind those sunglasses! Sexual attraction is really important -sacred even - according to the Bible, so how am i supposed to really know if im attracted to you when you only have facial shot or only 1 pic. C'mon ladies! You come off as scammers then. Must have more than 1 pic -seriously you should have 4 or 5 like me and dont waste time putting duplicates - good grief! Instant rejection if just 1 pic or i cant behold your face and your full figure. I need to see what im getting into!

If you read all the way down im impressed! still think you're a contender at this point? -- let me know!

In the meantime, Godbless.

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Benchobserver Personal Details
Gender Male
Age 31
Sexuality Straight
Location USA, California, Thousand Oaks
Ethnicity White / Caucasian
Build Athletic
Hair Dark brown
Drink Never
Smoke No
Education College Degree/Diploma
Religion Christian
Children None - maybe would like some
Marital Status Single

Recent status updates
Benchobserver Benchobserver
  8:37 am Saturday, 16th January, 2021

Ladies, out of courtesy and consoderation for that special someone, PLEASE post more than one pic of yourselves, and include both headshots and body shots so we know what we're getting into. Thats not asking too much, is it? Duplicate pics do not count!🙈

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by mawbydemi10

And in the meantime ill try to proofread my posts better to avoid typos😶

by Benchobserver