Local Lexden single males and females

• auto288
• Male, Straight
• Age: 40
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

So...I'm almost 30, but perhaps look a little younger. I'm 5'9 with short dark hair and blue eyes. I'm intelligent, relaxed and easy going, with a positive attitude to life! So I'm looking for chat and friendship mainly, an exercise buddy would be great (running and cycling), but am also open to a little flirting may be...perhaps more with the right person. Just looking for a little extra spark! Age or looks are not so important but some one non-judgemental or in a similar position would be great...

• Steveoliveo
• Male, Straight
• Age: 42
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

I'm look for a frendy girl to hang out with and get to know...I ant in no know ruch as I quite happy in my self being single.I Hate drearmer in my life ,easy going and normal with good ears

• Slippery69
• Male, Straight
• Age: 52
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

Divorced guy looking for some casual fun with the right hot lady, any takers. I'm up for anything really, open mind and open trousers! Spend a lot of time away from home so feel free to invite me in x

• viper101
• Male, Straight
• Age: 50
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

I am a very easy going person, I will find the best in everyone, I enjoy going out, walking, cycling, enjoying the great outdoors. I like cinema, music, parties, enjoy a drink, love company. I like cars, driving generally, the seaside with the children, travel, not much I don't like. Also I do enjoy a night in with a lovely lady, good cooking or take a way, plus a nice bottle of wine. Ask me more if there is something you want to ask.

• Topcat56
• Male, Straight
• Age: 54
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

Read all the information and you miss the person. You miss a loyal (probably naive) guy with a great (albeit wicked) SOH. Women like honesty but I am too honest most of the time, it's my curse. Do I look my age or weight? No, people guess me 2 stone lighter and 10+ years younger and my last partner was 15 years my junior because of this. Currently I have difficulties walking any great distance and with the NHS waiting list being what it is that will continue for now. At my age this probably means not working fully again. I am great face-to-face, not so good via mailmessaging and have often been told off for making too much noise and making people laugh too much at inappropriate times. Can't help it, that's who I am. Yes, I am a smoker. Started age 11 but gave up at age 28 for 18 years. I started again for a very good reason but someday I will stop again. Just need a good, pertinent reason. I think I have finally found a good reason so this may change to 'trying to quit' shortly, lol! If you have read this far you probably won't take exception to the next bit, lol! Assuming I was looking to date, which is debatable but not impossible right now. I haven't dated anyone older than myself since I was 15, probably due to the fact that people always think I am younger. This is not a hard and fast rule as such and hasn't really done me any favours relationship wise. I have always said the person is more important than the statistics but it does mean someone older than me is less likely to gain my interest to become more than a friend. Still I think I read somewhere that the more effort things require the better they turn out. When I search I use 40-56 as an age range and I am sure some won't appreciate me expressing a preference but we all have to start somewhere. I am friends first except under exceptional circumstances but, if I decide to look for more, will decide much sooner than women usually do. If rebuffed it has no effect on the friendship but sometimes women change their minds later. If the friendship becomes too solid I will not risk losing it just for a date, a stance that has earned me a few bad words. Generally most of my friends are female as I connect better than with most guys. It's an important thing to remember about me as sometimes the women I have dated wish me to discontinue contact with all other women. I don't think that is right. I have no fear of living alone for long periods and have done so 3 or 4 times now but it would be nice to have someone to share with. I suppose most men would jump at the chance of a short but fun relationship but I am a little deeper than that. Not to say that I wouldn't necessarily but it would depend on the lady. The term used to be 'making love' and that's how I tend to regard it even now. Love is very important.

• Dominic89
• Male, Straight
• Age: 52
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

• wassup77
• Male, Straight
• Age: 46
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

• BigTeddy14
• Male, Straight
• Age: 47
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

• wordy11
• Male, Straight
• Age: 49
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

• booster1992
• Male, Straight
• Age: 31
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

hey my name is pete im 21 im from colchester but live in ipswich now i travel a lot due to work anything else you would like to no just drop me a message

• NeverSayNever88
• Male, Straight
• Age: 36
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

Trying to find that special someone, been single for a little over a year now since I left to go travelling actually. I live out in the country now an hardly go out anywhere other than the gym an work. Would live to make some new friends and hopefully find my match along the way!

• Tractorboy43
• Male, Straight
• Age: 53
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden

Hi there lady's . I'm a separated 43 yr old male . Living in the Colchester area . I'm looking for a friendly outgoing fun loving female with similar interests . I'm an easy going gent with 4 lovely boys of variable ages . I like music and singing . Movies and football . Social nights out and romantic nights in . Am willing to travel within a reasonable range of the Colchester area . If you like what your reading then pls get in touch .. Xxx

• swifty10101
• Male, Straight
• Age: 54
• UK, England: Essex, Lexden